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a talk about meaning of "dynamite" words which gets you to huge fights, as you fight and accuse each other of hidden implications and about the way you think, because you use "white"/"black"/"proud". dynamics between accusing and being accused which grow in a hysteric way.

people using the words: "my therapist"/"my masseuse" etc. interesting relationship of hidden slavery, people who afford to pay therapy actually speak of the person who is doing the therapy service as if they're his/her. as if they own them. also heard something like "i have a very good hairstylist/let me take you to my hair stylist/my nutritionist told me off for eating so much meat". it's an interesting relationship, linked through money but also creating family like ties.